Letting Go to Grow: Lessons from Parenthood to Business

As a parent and an Online Business Consultant, I’ve discovered that there’s a remarkable parallel between raising a child and nurturing a business. Both journeys are filled with moments of joy, challenges, learning and most importantly, growth. Recently, a personal experience brought this comparison into a clearer perspective for me.Why letting go and outsourcing is crucial for small business success - picture of a cracked pavement with a purple flower growing up from the crack

My eldest daughter recently embarked on a school trip to London. This wasn’t just any trip—it was one where she would be exploring with her friends, with limited adult supervision. The logical part of my head knew this was a necessary step towards her independence but the parent in me couldn’t help but worry about all the things that could go wrong.

Yet, I had to let her go, trusting the values and the lessons we’ve instilled in her over the years. This act of letting go, despite the worries, made me reflect on a similar process in my professional life.

Nurturing a business: a balancing act

When I begin working with a new client, I listen to their business plans and then work to implement them in the most efficient and automated way. At the beginning of that journey, you know that logically it is going to be great and will help you but you are nervous about handing your business over to someone else.

Much like the moment of sending my daughter off on her trip, there is a mix of anticipation and apprehension. It’s exciting that she is gaining independence and is a step further toward adulthood but you can’t stop being anxious about all the ‘what if’s’ that could make the trip a disaster!

When it comes to your business, the anticipation comes from knowing the potential benefits of collaborating with others through outsourcing but the apprehension stems from your natural fear of handing over your business to someone else.

Just as we need to let our children grow toward independence, there comes a time when we need to let our businesses do the same. It’s a delicate act of balance between nurturing and letting go.

Growing Your Business through Outsourcing

Your business, like caring for a child, needs fresh perspectives and outside help to grow and flourish. “It takes a village to raise a child” is a well-known saying that accounts for the additional support we need with our children, from educational professionals to your health team and friends and family that you may turn to for advice and support.

Growing a business is not dissimilar. Remember that seeking assistance doesn’t mean you are giving up control of your business or have ‘failed’ because you haven’t been able to do everything. Instead, it’s an opportunity to learn from others, delegate tasks so you can prioritise what’s most important and gain some external perspective, strategic thinking and troubleshooting too.

Your business will always be your baby but if you want it to flourish you need to bring in some fresh eyes and ask for help.

As an Online Business Consultant, I can listen to your plans, bounce ideas around with you and suggest ways to systemise your business that will allow you to achieve your goals. We take it slowly so that you don’t feel you are losing control and our mission is always to make things more efficient and help you achieve your goals for the future of your business.

Overcoming the fear by trusting the process

I understand that it can be daunting to entrust someone else with your business, just as it was for me to let my daughter navigate a new city. However, your fear should not be a roadblock to the success of your business. The key is to find a trustworthy online business consultant with whom you can communicate openly, much like finding the right teacher or guide for your child.

If my approach resonates with you, I invite you to get in touch for a free consultation. We can discuss your business, your goals and how we might work together to achieve them. I am committed to becoming a partner in your growth journey, providing the support and expertise you need while always respecting your unique vision for your business.

In the end, both parenting and running a business come down to balance. It’s about knowing when to hold on and when to let go, always with the goal of fostering growth and independence. It’s a journey and like all journeys, it’s easier when you have a trusted companion by your side.